Most men think dominance means force.

And many submissive women believe they need force in order to submit.

We hear it everywhere:

• Men are told to “man up,” to be harder, louder, more aggressive.

• Women say, “I want him to make me submit. I want him to take control.”

O...

One hundred episodes.

What began as an experiment, an idea to share more than Instagram captions and 90-second reels, has become a weekly rhythm of truth-telling, devotion, and opening our lives for the world to see.

When we launched the Dom Sub Devotion podcast two years ago, we weren’t s...

A deeper look at how fear distorts Dominance and submission, and what it takes to lead and surrender in truth. 

In every Dominant/submissive dynamic, there’s an invisible force that can either deepen intimacy or erode it from the inside out: fear.

Fear isn’t just a feeling. It’s a distortion...

Question Everything: Why the Life You’re Living Might Not Be Yours

(And How to Finally Make It Yours Without Burning It All Down) 

Most people are living by rules they never wrote.

Rules about what love should look like.

Rules about what it means to be a “good person.”

Rules about wh...

What We've Learned About Genuine Desire—and Why Most People Can’t Handle It 

Why This Conversation Changes Everything

Every man says he wants a wild woman. Every woman says she wants to feel free.

But when the fantasy meets reality, almost no one is prepared for what that actual...

Hi love, 

Last week, I was on the podcast with Sir for the first time in six months answering some questions that our Instagram followers had for me. That was actually not the plan. 

The plan was for me to rejoin THIS week, to record the episode that’s just been dropped today, to share what’s been...

In this special episode, Dawn returns to the podcast for the first time in six months to answer your questions—raw, real, and unscripted.

We’re in the middle of launching the Rapture Self-Study Course, and this Q&A episode is the perfect companion. It’s an honest look at what life really looks...

Episode 93 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast talks about loving D/s relationships, and what it really takes to create and sustain them. This blog post outlines much of that episode, so if you enjoy this read, click below to listen in to the full episode. 

Listen: https://infinitedevotion.com/podcasts...

There’s a common fantasy in the world of Dominance and submission.

It goes something like this: “If the dynamic is strong enough… if the Dominant is consistent, if the submissive is devoted, there shouldn’t be any conflict. No disagreement. No friction.”

But here’s the truth:

Disagreemen...

There’s a moment I’ve seen play out a thousand times: a woman, aching to be led, finally encounters a man who begins to step forward with real Dominance. Not bravado. Not control. Not coercion. But grounded, erotic, present masculine leadership.

And in that moment when her deepest craving is bein...

“Letting go isn’t a process. It’s not a strategy. It’s not something you achieve over time. Letting go is the moment you stop holding on.” 

In Episode 89 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast, I sat down with Sven Loss for one of the most piercing and clarifying conversations I’ve had in a long tim...