Most men are absolutely terrified of desire.

Not the pursuit of desire. Not the chase. Not the conquest.

They're terrified of the feeling of wanting something they don't have the power to control getting.

Because unfulfilled desire, wanting without the certainty of having, feels like weakness. It...

The Gasoline & The Match: Understanding Feminine Desire

Most women have never learned to simply want.

They've learned to want and immediately strategize. Want and plan. Want and work toward. Want and figure out how to get it themselves.

They've learned that wanting without getting is uncomfortabl...

Based on Episode 119 of the DOM Sub Devotion Podcast

Growth requires the willingness to reconsider what you thought you knew. After seven years of living in a 24/7 dominant/submissive dynamic and several years of teaching these concepts, I've discovered that my understanding continues to deepen in ...

You've probably read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. If you haven't, stop reading this and go get it right now. I'll wait.

https://a.co/d/15BXtzz - << Link to book here

It's one of those books that every man in the self-development space has on his shelf. It's the book that wakes m...

Most people who want a dominant/submissive dynamic are only applying those principles about 2% of the time. Then they wonder why the dynamic keeps falling apart.

Let me break down the math for you. In any given week, 2% of the hours would equal about three and a half hours. That's actually a pret...

Let me ask you a direct question: Are you strong enough to be a Dominant?

Not strong enough to tell her what to do. Not strong enough to enforce rules or play out scenes. I'm asking if you're strong enough to actually lead her.

Because here's what most men don't understand when they step into d...

You're about to bring dominance and submission into your relationship.

Maybe one of you has been fantasizing about this for years and finally worked up the courage to say something. Maybe you both discovered this together and you're excited to explore it. Maybe she came to you and said she wants...

Welcome to 2026! After a month-long break, Dawn and I returned to the podcast to answer your questions, and one theme kept surfacing beneath almost every single one: trust.

Not the fairy tale version of trust where nobody ever gets upset. The real kind. The kind that actually makes a dominant/sub...

 In this week's episode of Dom Sub Devotion, I asked my listeners and followers to send me some of their toughest questions. To challenge me. To question me if they think I'm full of shit. 

And then, in the episode, I spoke for an hour completely from the hip. With no prep or outlining, just speaki...

Everyone wants the passion. Everyone wants the intensity. Everyone wants that electric connection between masculine and feminine, between dominant and submissive, where desire doesn't fade and intimacy keeps deepening.

But here's what nobody tells you: the version of you that exists right now doe...

The foundation of dominance isn't what you do to your partner. It's how you show up for yourself

There's a common misconception about dominance in relationships: that it's primarily about what you do to or with your submissive partner. That it's about commands, control, or cultivating a particul...

Over the last five and a half years of running Infinite Devotion as a full-time business, I've witnessed something that deeply concerns me: how much the BDSM community lives in the shadows. There's a pervasive assumption that this is just the way it has to be, that shame and secrecy are inevitable...