Over the last five and a half years of running Infinite Devotion as a full-time business, I've witnessed something that deeply concerns me: how much the BDSM community lives in the shadows. There's a pervasive assumption that this is just the way it has to be, that shame and secrecy are inevitable...

There's a question I hear from men constantly. It sounds like frustration. It sounds like confusion. It sounds like exhaustion.

"Why won't she just let go?"

She says she wants to. She might even beg you to lead. She craves the feeling of surrender, of submission, of finally being able to relax ...

If you’ve ever looked at the man you love and thought, why won’t he just take charge, I want to help you see what’s really happening underneath that question. I hear it often, especially from women who are awake, capable, and craving something deeper in their relationships. They don’t want to cont...

When I first asked Dawn to be my submissive, I thought I was finally going to get what I wanted. Structure. Obedience. Peace. I wanted her to relax. I wanted her to stop living from fear. I thought if I set the rules and she followed them, calm would arrive.

It didn’t. You cannot tell someone...

Devotion is one of those words that gets tossed around until it loses its teeth. People use it to mean discipline, loyalty, passion, even obligation. From the outside those things can look a lot like devotion. They can produce results. They can keep a relationship upright for a while. But they are...

Eric is back. If you have been around a while you know him as a personal friend, and from the Conscious Dominance podcast we co-hosted before he spun up DSRX with Rachael.

Today felt like a homecoming and a checkpoint on the path of devotion. Not the Instagram version. The lived, daily practice ...

Most conversations about “feminine energy” are upside down. They talk about tone of voice, smiling more, slowing your walk, curating softness. That is performance. Performance is not femininity.

At its core, feminine energy is receptivity. Not passivity. Receptivity. It is the way you take li...

Most men think dominance means force.

And many submissive women believe they need force in order to submit.

We hear it everywhere:

• Men are told to “man up,” to be harder, louder, more aggressive.

• Women say, “I want him to make me submit. I want him to take control.”

O...

One hundred episodes.

What began as an experiment, an idea to share more than Instagram captions and 90-second reels, has become a weekly rhythm of truth-telling, devotion, and opening our lives for the world to see.

When we launched the Dom Sub Devotion podcast two years ago, we weren’t s...

A deeper look at how fear distorts Dominance and submission, and what it takes to lead and surrender in truth. 

In every Dominant/submissive dynamic, there’s an invisible force that can either deepen intimacy or erode it from the inside out: fear.

Fear isn’t just a feeling. It’s a distortion...

Question Everything: Why the Life You’re Living Might Not Be Yours

(And How to Finally Make It Yours Without Burning It All Down) 

Most people are living by rules they never wrote.

Rules about what love should look like.

Rules about what it means to be a “good person.”

Rules about wh...

What We've Learned About Genuine Desire—and Why Most People Can’t Handle It 

Why This Conversation Changes Everything

Every man says he wants a wild woman. Every woman says she wants to feel free.

But when the fantasy meets reality, almost no one is prepared for what that actual...