
Dom Sub Devotion Episode 81: Breaking Through Perfection: Exploring Expression and Healing with Madelyn Moon
Apr 14, 2025Breaking Through Perfection: Exploring Expression and Healing with Madelyn Moon
You can feel it.
There’s a part of you that knows you’re not fully here.
Not fully expressed.
Not fully claimed.
Not fully alive.
You show up in your life, but something’s missing beneath the surface. Something real. Something wild. Something that’s been shoved down so many times, you’re not sure it’s even safe to let it back up again.
That’s what this week’s conversation with Madelyn Moon is all about.
We talked about the difference between performance and embodiment.
About what it really takes to move from being a woman who tries to get it right… to a woman who becomes the Oracle. A woman who knows what she wants, who acts on instinct, and who brings all of herself to the table—shadow and all.
Because here’s the truth:
Most women are still contorting themselves to fit a life that no longer fits.
They’re exhausted.
Not because they don’t have power.
But because they’ve been taught to use their power to perform—not to express.
You’ve probably felt this too.
Maybe even this week.
You go to speak your desire, but nothing comes out.
You feel a spark of truth rise up in your belly, but it gets strangled in your throat.
You want to be seen, but you’re terrified of being exposed.
Madelyn calls this what it is: sacred theater.
And the performance isn’t the problem—it’s the fear of fully playing your part.
“Step into the performance,” she said in our conversation. “Devour it. Be so in it that something real is finally free to come through.”
We talked about shape-shifting, sacred rage, grief, improv, shadow work, and the power of letting your body become the vessel—not the gatekeeper—of your truth.
She told the story of watching women go from frozen to fully expressed in just a few days inside her container, Unbound.Not because they were “fixed,” but because they were finally witnessed in their bigness.
And that’s the part that might land in your body the hardest:
You don’t need another tool.
You don’t need another course.
You don’t need another year of waiting.
You need to move.
You need to express.
You need to be seen.
Because when you stop avoiding your shadow, your rage, your impulse, your grief—when you stop trying to be good—you start to become who you were always meant to be.
The Artist.
The Oracle.
The Wild Holy Woman.
This episode is for the woman who’s done pretending she’s fine.
For the woman who wants to make art with her pain, not just cope with it.
For the woman who’s ready to feel her aliveness—not just read about it.
Because freedom isn’t found by trying to “let go.”
It’s found by going all the way in.
Listen now.
Then move.
Then speak.
Then howl.
We’ll meet you on the other side.
🎧 Listen to the full episode with Madelyn Moon
📸 Follow Madelyn on Instagram
🎁 Download her free 3-part series: The Unfuckwithable Artist
→ https://maddymoon.com/unfuckwithable
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