We're gonna do another Q and A episode today.
We had so much fun doing the last one people sent in such great questions that we wanted to do another one of these.
And we'll keep doing these every so often just because it's fun to talk about the things that people want to hear.
And I know that for every one person that asks these questions, there's probably 100 more out there who are thinking it or who will learn something from it.
So, yeah, I, I love these.
Yeah, we're gonna have fun today.
So it never fails whenever we put out.
Um a solicitation for questions, never fails.
The thing that people are the most curious about is always your caller.
Interesting.
I don't think we've ever solicited questions without getting collar questions.
Yeah, I think you're right about that.
So it's only fitting that that's where we're gonna start today.
So the the first question is, are there physical challenges living with the eternity collar 24 7 such as downward dog and yoga, it bouncing around while running, taking showers, et cetera.
And then how did you find the right trade off between a snug or a loose fit.
So, are there physical challenges wearing your collar? No, I haven't come across any but um it's pretty lightweight too.
It's titanium.
So like, yes, I have felt it um, like bounce on my collar bones here and there, but I, I just don't notice that if it's happening because it doesn't hurt.
It's just, it's just moving with me.
So, so when you do downward dog, when you do yoga besides that, it looks amazing.
What happens with your collar, does it go up and like bounce in your chin? No, like it's, it's snugger.
So snugger, is that a word? Now? It is like it only goes up to here.
So it doesn't hurt.
It doesn't um Yeah, like I've jumped rope, I've done Burpees, I've done hang cleans.
Um And this I believe is the extra small fit from eternity colors.
I also had the small for a while and that would hit more of my collar bones.
So I like this extra small, more snug fit.
That is um gosh, I would say like I can get a a finger with between my neck and my and the collar.
Yeah.
And it rests like just above your collar bones.
If you're watching this on youtube, you can kind of see this or collar bones are right about here.
And so the collar rests just above them.
So if it does bounce, it's not hitting on bone and I would correct that I think I remember when I would do hang cleans, I would hear the ching of my collar because I think I was, the bar would hit.
Yeah.
And I've also had that other, um, ring too that just made more noise.
So this black leather peace, um, is my daily wear one and I know it said something about showers.
Um, I think we replaced this one once but it hasn't, I keep the leather pretty well waterproofed to the best that I can to.
Um I think it's also probably time since you did introduce a new word snugger that we introduce our podcast listeners to this very fun thing that we have at home, which is called the dictionary.
And what is the dictionary? It's my made up words.
Yes, it's a dictionary of words that Dawn is made up.
It doesn't really exist.
We just reference it all the time anytime I make a new word.
Yep.
So there, there are some very familiar words in the dictionary and no snugger is in there.
I think it's the most funny when I don't realize I made up a word and you have to tell me.
Yeah, probably your best one ever was clip it, which is a combination word of clip and snippet.
So copyright that you probably should.
So now we let you all into a little one of our inside jokes about the dictionary.
So yeah, the one last thing you mentioned, the collar being Titanium from Eternity call and we will put a link in the show notes for this episode to Eternity Collars.
We're an affiliate, we get a commission if you buy one there.
Uh We only are affiliates for them because we love them and we love their products and the people who run the company are great as well.
So, um the Titanium Collars are very light.
There are people who sell ones that look very similar, but they're stainless steel and they weigh about three times as much if I remember, right? And I can't remember if we mentioned this in the colors podcast before, but I know we've gotten questions about being out in the sun.
Um And I have never really noticed this getting too hot, like I've never had to take it off because it heated up too much on me and I've spent a lot of time in the sunshine.
Yeah, you have gotten some really good collar tan lines though.
Yeah.
But when I wear it mostly this one all the time, you don't even notice them.
They're just fun for me.
So the next question came as a follow up on one of our past podcasts and someone's asking you don the work you did to work through your past emotional issues.
Did you read specific books? If so, can you recommend any that have directly supported your journey into submission? Um I will answer this one and then I want you to give any commentary because I only remember so much of what I've read because I've read a lot of books, but it's mainly fiction now.
Um, but I do love this question because I understand where it's coming from because at the beginning of this journey, all I've known was like to learn something.
I had to read something.
I mean, that's what I did all in school gain knowledge and then you have knowledge.
Yeah.
And gosh, when we're so programmed in that like that is really hard to break out of.
And the my point of reference and being in school is like I was so the math brain like do this equation get the perfect answer instead of the, this is how I label it.
The English brain of the more conceptual abstract you liked the objective, black and white, right and wrong answers versus the subjective right and wrong.
Yeah.
And so I was so ingrained in that black and white thinking.
And so coming down this journey, there were at the beginning, it was like, give me information so I can figure out how to do this.
And um the best book that I've I read to help me on my journey specifically was how to do the work by the holistic psychologist.
And it turned me inward, Nicole Le Pera.
Yes, Doctor Nicole Le Pera.
And um it really, I had already understood some of this stuff because I'd followed her Instagram account and I don't know what else, but I, I understood the emotional aspect for the first time in my life.
And so there, I didn't read a specific book on submission, but it was that book.
And then um the untethered soul was another one I read.
That was very, very, incredibly helpful.
And then I'd say the four agreements.
And so those are more about the bigger aspect of life and surrender.
And I don't really even know how to summer it emotional maturity and emotional like emotional engagement with your own reality, with the truth.
Yeah.
And I want to say there was another book around the time of the untethered soul, but I don't remember what that was.
Yeah.
So to your point and to the person who asked the question here, thank you for it.
Don't over rely on information.
Oh Yeah, I guess I didn't get to explain that.
Inputting information, puts knowledge in your head, which helps you understand, but it doesn't actually make any difference in your emotional reality in your ability to, for example, heal traumatic experiences and wounding that you carry with you from your past.
You can't do that through the head and you can't do that by inputting information and learning something because you can't think your way out of a thinking problem.
You have to feel your way, right? And so I wanna take a tangent on that.
Um like the emotional experience of life is access through the body as the feminine.
And so I had to let go of the trying to understand everything from my mind and really connect with my body.
And that is how I've come to be where I'm at today.
Of course, along with your guidance, every step of the way, not through the mind, it's been through the body and the knowings from the body are not the same as intellect from the mind.
And the difference between knowing in the mind and knowing in the body is like the difference between reading something and having the knowledge.
Like if somebody asked you the question, you could give the correct answer because you know the thing.
But knowing in the body is just, it's a felt sense of trust and understanding that it just, you know exactly what it is and it feels like, you know, rather than you just think, you know, I use the example sometimes of what of how deep a knowing is is like the knowing that gravity exists.
Like if you hold something up and you drop it, you don't question for a second that it's going to fall.
And that like that is the depth of knowing that you can get to through the body that you can never get to through the mind.
Like if you had never experienced gravity, I could explain it to you.
You could think you understood it, you could list out and write out what it does.
But you wouldn't actually know what it's like to drop something and have it fall until you've experienced it.
Next question.
Another comment on one of our past podcasts.
Don talks a lot about feeling so free to not have to make decisions and as a submissive myself, that sounds amazing.
But I wonder, Don, do you ever feel guilty that Andrew takes on all of that responsibility I would say in the past and the beginning? Yes, when I just didn't trust you fully in what you were saying.
And as I've deepened in this journey, I, and I've had to um I don't want to say the be in my role, but I don't know how else to say it be deeper in my feminine.
I have to accept you as the opposite.
If I truly want to live in this thing, we call polarity and um the bigness, the expansiveness of what we can experience in that passion and desire.
I have to trust it.
And so now, no, I don't feel guilty at all because it's not my role to be the one in charge and to make all the decisions, it's not my strength, it's exhausting and I've released my attachment to it, which released the guilt as well.
One of the other things that I've, that I've witnessed in you and that is a part of it was accepting the fact that I was, I was actually different than you like, this was actually diff a very different experience for me to take responsibility than it was for you to be the responsible one.
You didn't really believe that.
Not at first.
No, because the follow up on this question then to me is asking me, does having to make all of the decisions, stress you out of her.
No, not at all.
When she's not trying to challenge all of them and question every decision that I make.
It's actually very easy.
And I have heard you say that to me so many times and I believe, you know, it's, it's actually very fulfilling and rewarding for me to take responsibility and to step forward when that doesn't feel good.
It's usually because I'm taking, I'm trying to take responsibility but not actually being given the lead, not being trusted in the lead to your point, like being able to trust.
Yeah.
And I've witnessed the confidence in your ability to create the vision, the direction for us.
Um Share with me what I need to know about the path you're taking.
And I've like over and over experienced a better life because of it.
And so that in itself has also been like, oh yeah, all these things that I've tried to do for myself haven't been the way and what you told me was the way is legitimately the way.
So no, I don't want to make the decisions.
So to the last part of this person's question, if asking me if I think that, that that's typical of men.
I do think it's typical of men or anyone with a masculine core to want to chart a course and to be able to execute on their plan, to be able to take something forward in the direction they think is right? And when they have someone with them saying I believe in you, I trust you, I will go with you that is invigorating to us when we have someone next to us saying, did you remember this? Did you think about that? What was the like? Why did you decide this way? What was the like, what was the rationale behind your decision making? Now, we can't focus on actually doing what we're wanting to do because we're having to explain ourselves, justify ourselves.
We make you feel OK about where we're going before you will be able to go there rather than having your trust, which is saying I will go where you go and I believe in you.
Yes.
And I lived in all of those questions.
I know I used to show up that way and I didn't even know what I was doing.
I just had to be the responsible one in a lot of ways in my life before and before us.
And so gosh, to, to come into the recognizing of that was control.
I was like, oh my gosh, what am I doing? And then to try to unwind those patterns and that habit.
It took some work and it took me being willing to be called out by you.
But, and I know I still do it once in a while.
I know I do.
Um But I can say that I have come to feel the excitement and the um joy in not having to make all the decisions.
Like it is possible very, very much is so another question following up on one of our last podcast, I'm sorry.
This is on one of our last Instagram posts.
Somebody says, when the fuck did B Ds M become a therapy session? What the fuck? Um What is your, what is your response? Um Wow.
Where do I even start with that? Well, oh gosh, I'm, I'm trying to like take a lot down into a little bit here.
Um I can only speak from my experience as a woman and like it's an emotional experience.
And so if you're disconnected from your emotions, you're disconnected from the endless, infinite possibilities of life experience as well.
And so emotion like your emotional expression and experience is all about the body and that's what people want to experience in B DS M as well.
And kink it's seeking in my understanding from what I have heard is it's seeking to drop out of the mind and into the body like that's impact play.
That's um is probably one of the best ones and the depth of turn on that you can experience in the body is all helped with emotional connection.
And so when you have this emotional poison from your past, bumping up against things, like you're limiting your experience of not um working through the personal development aspect, maybe it's therapy, maybe it's like on your own, but it's, it's all connected, I guess.
And I can see a question like that coming from someone who sees dominance and submission.
B DS M is just like a, a game or a kink or something very superficial that lacks any meaning or depth or relationship.
And it's just about role play or fantasy or, or whatever, like engaging on any sort of an emotional level for someone who engages with this lifestyle at that level, makes no sense at all.
And what if that's where they play and that's where they want to stay, that's fine.
But this is never gonna make sense what we do here, what we do in our relationship, what we talk about on this podcast and in our Instagram posts and our courses is, is never gonna make sense to someone who's only wanting to engage in dumb sub play.
B Ds M play at a surface kink role play kind of a level, right? This, this is about how, what we do here is about how you do this and have love and connection and relationship and devotion at the same time as being able to explore in all of those kink B Ds M fun realms without, without fucking up a good relationship.
But actually being able to add to it and make it more loving, more devoted, more connected even better than what it would be without that energy.
Right? So mister um whatever your Instagram user name is, it's not so much about it being a therapy session.
It's about being able to bring emotional awareness to dominance and submission to make it something that's a whole lot better.
You might want to give it a try.
You might have some fun.
Next question.
I'd like to hear more about what trustworthiness is like in a dom, I believe trust is a huge component.
So what does trustworthiness look like in a dominant man to you? Don? Um gosh, that's such a deep question that I could probably go off on a tangent for an hour.
Um If you're looking at a person and you are trying to determine, is this a trustworthy person? Well, you can't look at someone and determine if they're trustworthy, you have to have experience with them.
And so does he say what he's gonna do? I said that really funny.
Does he, what does he do? What he says he's going to do? Does he follow through? Yes.
Does he have integrity? Um Does he have confidence in his own strength? Does he have humility? Does, is he connected to his heart? So all of those things is what I have experienced in you, but I've also had to learn how to trust myself before I could fully trust you.
Yeah.
And we've talked about that at length.
But what I've really seen in that from you, like in feeling your trust build for me is, has been your ability to speak up to say what exactly that's the trust I've had to build in myself that if something doesn't feel right, I will speak up.
If, if you do something that rocks me, I have to speak up and also like trust myself to share all of my emotional expression with you as well.
And yeah, I think, I think the deepest part for me was learning how to trust myself.
And then it became much easier for me to trust you because I experienced those qualities in you.
So, yes, integrity, responsibility, humility, like following through on commitments, strength and confidence, your own abilities, confidence, yes, those are, those are all characteristics of a trustworthy person in general, a dominant man, your ability as a submissive to speak up and to trust yourself that you are going to um share what's going on with you.
And I think the third piece to that is that you have to be able to trust, you have to have the capacity to trust.
Otherwise you can always find your, your ego can always find a reason not to trust someone if it wants to look hard enough.
Well, I will say that everybody has the capacity but are you willing to do the work to drop the walls that you've built around your heart? Yeah.
And this is another, you know, back to when the fuck did B DS M become a therapy session? You cannot do this on any kind of a deep level.
If you haven't healed your inner pain, both the dominant and the submissive, it's always going to be trauma bonding.
It's going to be coping mechanisms.
It's going to be some unhealthy version of relating without having done the deep work on yourself.
And that impacts trust as well.
It impacts the ability to be trustworthy.
It impacts the ability to trust someone else.
It impacts the ability for you to have internal self trust, all of it matters.
And that's why we continue to come back to this idea that you have to heal your traumas.
You have to heal your inner pain and be willing to face it and stand there in it even when well and especially when it hurts.
Absolutely.
So I hope that was helpful in, in learning about what it means to find trustworthiness in a dominant.
The next question, I'd love to hear your input on this one first.
Is it possible to have a family and a DS relationship? Absolutely.
I think it is a very um important uh display of the love and devotion that is possible that can be in a relationship between a man in my band and like I can see it if you're asking that through the question, that dominance and submission is closer to the B DS M aspect of kink.
I can understand why.
It's like, how do you do that? But my surrender to the bigness of life and surrender to my soul.
My submission to you is one of the most incredible, well, it is the most incredible piece to my life.
Like it's made me who I am.
And so I wish we would have had this a long time ago because it's been, it's been life changing and like in the Bible, it says wives submit to your husbands.
And now I understand the depths of what that really is getting at.
And I know that can be, you know, misconstrued in religion very easily and it has been by a lot of religions for a long time.
Yeah.
But when I, when I surrender and I let you take charge in all ways in our relationship, it's gotten so much better.
My life has gotten better.
I have felt free.
And so II, I try to put myself in the um position of a child and experiencing a husband and a wife, a mom and dad in this beautiful love and devotion.
And that's their experience of childhood.
And what's possible.
That is amazing, like, very different than my experience and yours.
But I encourage everybody to like, release the shame that's attached to these roles and really live in the depths of what they possibly can be.
I think that this continues to be a thing and this is a part of why we share so openly.
Like we, we talk so much about this in everything that we do for a living and we're open about it in our lives with people who want to know about it.
That doesn't mean they know what we do in the bedroom.
No, but there's, there's a lot of assumption that you like those lines have to be crossed in order to be 24 7.
Like your entire sexuality has to be on display at the Christmas dinner table.
What anyone who knows us and sees us gets to see of our relationship is intense, love, passion, devotion, care, respect like this woman doesn't touch a car door.
She, she is very well taken care of and loved.
And anyone who sees us, whether they know that you're my submissive or not, sees a man who deeply loves and cares for his wife.
And that care is only strengthened in me and my desire to give it to you because of how much I receive back from you because of the energy of your submission and what it gives to me, right? And your willingness to follow me inspires me to want to give more love to you.
So absolutely, you can have a family and a DS relationship.
You just might want a couple of locked drawers in your nightstand and like a willingness to leave all of the private parts of it in private life.
Yeah.
And I do understand how, you know, it's somewhat taboo if you will in today's society in certain cultures.
And so I can't speak to what that is like, if, if it's very different in your culture.
But, um, you know, I don't really, I, I don't live for anyone else.
I'm gonna live my best life and I've experienced a better life through submission.
So I'm not ashamed of it at all.
It's something we get that I really love that.
We get to be an example for, for people is how much of our dominant submissive dynamic that we get to share and that we share every day with lots of people and nobody knows what we do in the bedroom and they won't get to know.
It was actually one of the questions that I didn't even put on our list today, but I'm gonna bring it up now just because of that conversation, someone asked do the two of you quote unquote play with others.
You don't get to know that or anything else that we do because we get to have a private life.
Yeah.
And that you get to have a private life and still be dominant, submissive and have pieces of your relationship that are just between the two of you, even if it's 24 7, sometimes the two of you may just have your own little secrets or your own memories of fun that you just had and you might be smirking at each other across the Christmas dinner table, but that's just between the two of you.
So the next question was, it's come up a couple of different times in different contexts.
So I'm kind of combining these questions into one, but with the level of connection and the amount that we rely on each other, someone asks, are you afraid of what happens if you lose each other? And I'll start on this one because I think there's maybe more of an assumption that from the submissive side, that something bad would happen if you lost to me.
And I'll let you speak to that.
But from my side, it's not just you that would be wrecked because I count so deeply on you.
I depend so much on you and your, and the way that you feed me with energy and with love and what having you at my side or kneeling at my feet does for me in my life, how much color and joy and energy and passion and inspiration that brings to me.
I would be absolutely wrecked if I lost you.
And I don't think I would ever be the same because this is as much as from the outside dominance and submission looks like I'm bossing you around and that is in the, the, the realm of the physical and the visible and what people can see I'm leading in your following.
Like I'm ordering your food for you.
I'm telling you where we're going, what time we're leaving, you know, all of that kind of thing.
So it's very visible.
The ways that you, you submit to me.
What's not so visible is the ways that I count and depend on you on the emotional side of the coin.
How really vulnerable my heart is to any time that you might lose connection with me and how much I count on that and how much it hurts when we lose it.
So, yes, I'm terrified of losing you.
And at the same time, I would never hold back how much I would open myself to you just because I'm afraid I might lose it someday.
I don't want to limit my experience of how good life can be just because someday it might not be so good.
I'm going to enjoy what's here right now.
Yeah, I love this question because it was quite a while ago now that I recognized, you know, we said in our relationship a long time ago that we still choose each other every day.
You know, we're married, but we still choose each other every day.
It's still a choice, you know, a marriage contract, whatever li license is not.
Um, it, it's signing a piece of paper.
Yes, you can invite God into it as well.
But what I did back then on the, our wedding day was is very different than the commitment that I have to you today.
And my experience of you and of the love that we share and the deeper that I've gone into this, I had to come um face to face with different ways that I've clung to you and felt like you are mine to have.
And you know, I know those are just words and my felt experiences and emotional attachments and all of that are like we're mine to understand and like disconnect from um But what that helped me realize was the fear that was there of losing you.
And honestly, that that can be there forever if I wanna live in that because I would feel lost without you.
Incredibly, I also know that you've done what you can do to provide for me beyond if something happened to you.
But I also trust in God in the consciousness that I've connected to through you and beyond.
And I know that I would be protected, I would be provided for.
I don't know what it would look like.
It's not mine to know.
And if I choose to live in the fear and the worry, I'm only limiting, like you said, the possibility of what we can truly experience together if I limit my vulnerability to the amount that fear wants to hold it to like we don't get to dance in this aspect of life together as big as it can be.
And so does the thought come to my mind.
What would I do if I lost you? Yes.
But I don't feel the fear in my body about it.
I trust that I would be protected.
I would be provided for.
I do have a brain that I can put to use in ways that I don't have to right now and I do have other people that I can go to and rely on if I need to.
You know, I think that question, which us usually, or almost really, almost always comes from the submissive side does come out of some, some semblance of a fear of like losing themselves, losing their own capability, losing their own ability to take care of themselves by counting on or depending on someone else.
And in some ways, I guess this comes back to the question about trust and trustworthiness and the ability to trust, but it also gets at something a little bit deeper too, which is when, when you fear losing someone because you counter rely on them, what you're really saying on to some level or on, at some extent is that you don't believe in your own ability to handle yourself that on some level, you think that something about you, like, there's a codependency to it.
I think that in, in the question, in the way that it comes a lot of times like an assumption that this level of connection requires unhealthy codependency and depending on someone really counting on someone is not a co dependent relationship.
It's, it's much more vulnerable than that.
Yeah.
I think that term is getting at more of along the lines of a trauma bond and like through this relationship, through love and devotion, you can evolve beyond that.
From codependency to inter dependency, to true dependency, to connect to the depths of the spiritual aspect of life.
And you don't, you don't lose that.
I wouldn't lose my connection to God.
If you were the divine masculine, I'm connected to the heart of God.
And you wouldn't lose your capability of like going to the bank, ordering some checks or going online and using bill pay and paying the bills and like figuring some things out for yourself.
Right? Just because you don't have to, doesn't mean you can't or that you forget how, right.
So to end this Q and A episode, I want to do something a little bit different and I want to give our listeners and watchers a little chance to get to know a little bit about us on a more personal level.
So tell us, Don, what is your favorite kind of wine? A just like type or beyond whatever? Ok.
Well, I would say I like something along the lines of Zinfandels and Cabernets because I like a nice bold flavor and some spicy notes to it.
And yeah, that's what I've experienced through those two types the most.
Yeah, especially um, the, the cabs, the cabs that are grown in a little bit warmer climates and Zinfandels, the problem that we have with wine really is that the things that make wine taste, the way that we like, it also makes the highest alcohol content wines.
I was going to comment on that because I was like, I love the wines that we drink.
But gosh, two glasses of wine makes me extremely giggly.
Yeah, and sometimes very talkative.
I know.
So, you know, we both have similar tastes in, in that, in wine.
We like the, the really bold spicy flavors of wine.
Just like we like food.
You know, we like very flavorful things in general.
I like depth to what I enjoy in food and drink.
Yeah.
And something that is really important.
I know to both of us is like we're quality over quantity people when it comes to alcohol, when it comes to food, when it comes to a lot of things, I would rather drink way less and have a very good or eat something way less.
But at a high quality, I would rather have a high quality pizza than a low quality filet mignon.
Yeah, absolutely.
So what is your favorite thing to cook? Oh, man.
I don't know if I have a favorite.
I just like being creative with it and coming up like, I love going out to a restaurant and experiencing something I really like and then finding a way to recreate it for myself and make that on the regular menu.
And so I love pasta dishes.
I love making risotto.
I love doing our homemade sourdough pizza.
And what's your favorite thing that I cook for? You? Um, meet just meat.
You cook steak and pork chops and pork tenderloin and some good brisket.
A good pork shoulder.
You cook most of the seafood.
Yeah, we both definitely have our specialties.
Yeah, there's a lot, I feel like so far in my adventures there's more ways that I have found to be creative with the things that I cook than meat because I, I like the simplicity of meat too.
It's not like, hey, I wanna cover this in sauce because then you're messing with the flavors of just a good quality steak, in my opinion.
I think far and away.
My favorite thing to cook is really anything I can barbecue.
Like, I love making a good brisket, a good rack of ribs.
And I love, and I love sharing that when I make it.
I love being able to, to witness other people experiencing what it is that I've, that I've cooked and been able to create because I don't cook with, with barbecue.
I don't barbecue with barbecue sauce at all.
I tried to make the flavor of the meat the best that it can be.
And I love watching other people enjoy it.
Yeah.
What's one of your favorite things that I cook? Your Cajun pasta? Is pretty high up that list.
I just made that up myself.
And the chicken wild rice soup.
Yeah, that you make is amazing.
And I know that no matter what, one way that I can always make you smile is to compliment your cooking.
I love when you enjoy it.
It just makes my day.
I love the pleasures of food.
I love experiencing that with other people, especially you.
Where is your favorite place you've traveled? Hm.
Um gosh, I loved Hawaii.
I would love to go back to Hawaii and I, I loved experiencing the drive around tour on the big island in the convertible and all of the different climates on that one island.
I would love to do that again and spend more time.
Then we had maybe do it in more than a day.
Yeah, that trip was tops for me too, especially because that's where I proposed to you.
Yeah, on the big island on that trip.
So that, that will always hold a special place for us.
Yes.
That whole trip was incredible.
And so the one last little get to know us question that I wanted to answer for our listeners and viewers is, what is this that we are sitting in right now? And this, for those of you watching on youtube especially, you can see that our background from the first several episodes of the podcast to now looks quite a bit different.
So what are we sitting in? I think I did mention this on the last one, but we are in our fifth Wheel camper.
It's a grand design solitude.
And we have, we have spent over half the year um like last winter and then now this winter living in this thing um to experience a better climate during winter than back home.
Yes, because we live way up north where you get into the negative twenties and thirties Fahrenheit in the winter and lots and lots of snow and we like to be outside.
So once we were able to and life at home allowed, we started hitting the road early October in this thing and we live wherever we park it usually for a month or two at a time and travel around eventually with the desire to find a different place that we can call home that allows us to be outside more than five months out of the year comfortably.
Yes, I look forward to finding that someday.
So if you really love where you live, if it's a beautiful climate where you live and there's the ability to like be in nature with lots of peace and quiet.
Um And you'd like to suggest a potential future home for Don and I where we can drag our camper somewhere in that area and check it out.
Let us know please in the comments, we would love to have our eyes and minds open to new ideas of where we might make home of something we might not have thought about including another country.
We just can't take our camper.
We could probably get it to Canada, but that's north.
That's too cold, not going there.
So if your suggestion is Canada, no, thanks.
And I'm not going to see if it floats.
So yeah, so we're probably not going to Cuba.
No, not in a camper.
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