Detaching With Love: Breaking free from codependency in Dom/sub dynamics
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Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship.
We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we’re separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other.
This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness.
Enjoy!
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00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
00:33 Understanding Codependency
02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency
03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission
05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships
07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery
08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence
10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union
14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness
18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns
28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions
29:17 Facing Deep Wounds
32:11 The Importance of Authenticity
33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence
36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics
38:53 Overcoming Codependency
41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections
48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships
53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
