Finding a Dominant, Helping your man be more Dominant, and dealing with abusive Doms

 

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A few weeks back, we did two “Ask A Dom Anything” episodes, and in those episodes, we promised to record a follow up episode answering the three “Big Questions” that were asked by lots and lots of submissives when we solicited those questions.

This episode is here to deliver on that promise.

What are those three questions?

  1. How do I encourage my boyfriend/husband/partner to be more Dominant?
  2. How do I find a Dominant?
  3. What do I do when my Dominant is being harsh, mean, abusive, or unkind?

And we look deeply into these questions and the challenges faced by any submissive woman who finds herself in the place to be asking them, and hopefully provide some insights and resources to help.

And thank you as always for listening and watching!

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00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion

00:33 Addressing Unanswered Questions

01:19 How to Encourage Dominance in Your Partner

04:13 Challenges in Dominance and Submission Dynamics

07:25 Expressing Desires and Letting Go of Control

19:12 Finding a Dominant Partner

28:36 The Importance of the Spark in Relationships

29:39 Identifying a True Dominant Partner

30:54 Traits to Look for in a Dominant Partner

35:46 The Role of Relationships for Men

38:45 Handling Mistreatment in Power Exchange Relationships

49:26 Setting Boundaries as a Submissive

55:03 Final Thoughts and Farewell