Infinite Devotion
Devotional Dominance & Submission
The leadership and surrender we built our marriage on. A way of living that made us more in love, and more on fire, than the day we met.
What is devotional D/s?
Devotional Dominance and submission is a 24/7 way of living a relationship and D/s dynamic, not a bedroom role. The man leads with presence and an open heart. The woman surrenders from self-respect, never collapse. Andrew and Dawn of Infinite Devotion have lived it since 2018 and teach it through courses, coaching and a weekly podcast.
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Three currents underneath it all
Leadership
Presence, containment, and vision. A man solid enough that she can finally set the weight down.
Surrender
A woman with a self, choosing to open, because she trusts him and she trusts herself.
Structure
The rituals, rhythms, and agreements that hold a dynamic together when real life gets loud.
Which course should I start with?
Start where you stand. Men begin with Becoming a Dominant Man. Women begin with Submissive Foundations. Couples who want the whole picture begin with Rapture, our flagship. Couples who already have a dynamic and want it to hold up begin with Structuring Your D/s Dynamic.
| Course | Start here if | What's inside | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| Rapture | You want the full art and practice, from both sides | 6 modules, 20+ hours with Andrew and Dawn, live Q&A 4 times a year for life | $444 or 4 × $137 |
| Becoming a Dominant Man | You're a man who wants to lead without becoming a jerk | The 12 Steps to Dominance, 100+ lessons, live call with Andrew every Wednesday | $397 or 4 × $100 |
| Submissive Foundations | You're a woman who wants to surrender without losing yourself | 5 hours with Dawn and Andrew, practices, journal prompts, 2 bonus guides | $197 or 2 × $99 |
| Structuring Your D/s Dynamic | You're a couple building the contract, rules and rituals | 7 modules including the conversation guides and a maintenance module | $297 or 2 × $150 |
| Living Surrendered | You want one evening on letting go, not a full course | 90 minute workshop + 90 minute Q&A replay | $100 |
| Devotional D/s Complete | You want all of it | All five programs above, lifetime access | $797 (separately $1,435) |
Want more? Choose your role.
Who teaches this
Andrew and Dawn have been married for more than fourteen years and have lived a 24/7 Dominant/submissive marriage since 2018, when Andrew asked and Dawn said yes after eight years of a vanilla marriage that had gone quiet. Everything on this site was lived before it was taught. They host the Infinite Devotion podcast and work one-on-one with a small number of individuals and couples.
Want support building your dynamic?
Reading and courses will take you far. For the deeper work, the live mirroring, and the places you can't see on your own, I work one-on-one with a small number of individuals and couples. 12 sessions or 24. Apply on the coaching page and I'll reply myself.
D/s coaching with AndrewThe Infinite Devotion Community
A private, moderated space for conscious D/s conversation with people who take it seriously. $30 a year, and a $100 coupon toward any course when you join.
Join the CommunityQuestions people ask us
Is devotional D/s just kink?
No. Kink can be part of it, but devotional D/s is a way of relating all day: he leads, she follows, both from love and self-respect. Most of what we teach happens at the kitchen table and in conversation, long before the bedroom.
Do both partners have to want this for it to work?
The work starts with whoever found it first, and usually that's one person. Becoming a Dominant Man and Submissive Foundations are built for one partner. Rapture and Structuring are built for two. Many of our couples started with one.
Are you still living this way?
Yes. Our dynamic began in 2018 and it is the marriage we live today. We say so because people ask, and because a teacher who stopped living it would have no business teaching it.
What's the difference between Rapture and Devotional D/s Complete?
Rapture is one course, our flagship, with the live calls. Devotional D/s Complete is Rapture plus the other four programs for $797, which is $638 less than buying them separately.
Is this only for married couples?
No. Single men and women take the individual courses to become the partner they want to attract. Finding My Dominant Man exists for single women for exactly that reason.
Ready to begin?
Start where we started. Get the free guide, and we will take it from there.
Last updated October 2026