A private, paid online community for conscious people who take their D/s dynamic seriously. It exists for real conversation, genuine connection, and a level of depth that you won't find anywhere else in this space. It is moderated, intentional, and built around the philosophy and teachings of Infinite Devotion.

Because a paywall keeps out the trolls, the scammers, and the fakes. Everyone here is a real person, a grown adult who has made a small monetary commitment to belong to something that's real. 

The $30/year cost was set to cover the expenses of running this community, and as a way to support the Dom Sub Devotion podcast at as low a cost as possible. 

People who are living a D/s dynamic, actively exploring one, or serious about understanding power exchange at a deeper level. Dominants, submissives, and couples at every stage of their journey are welcome here.

If you've ever felt alone in this lifestyle or wished you had somewhere safe to talk about it openly, this was built for you.

People looking for a dating site, a hookup platform, or a place to perform their kink for an audience. If Fetlife is what you're looking for, this isn't it.

This community exists for depth, not performance.

There are strict rules against unsolicited DM's, posting explicit or sexual images or videos, or any usage of the community as a platform to approach other people with sexual advances. 

Almost entirely. This community has no kink lists, no explicit imagery, no ability to search for other members, and a zero tolerance policy for unsolicited contact. 

It is actively moderated and built around conversation and connection rather than profiles and pursuit.

The slight paywall exists specifically to keep it serious and to protect the quality of the space.

$30 per year, billed annually. That's less than $3 a month. You can cancel at any time, though membership fees are non-refundable once charged.

Several dedicated spaces including general D/s and relationship discussion, a Dominants-only space, a submissives-only space, an introductions channel, and an Ask Infinite Devotion channel where you can bring questions directly to Andrew.

And, a channel specifically for the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast, where you can ask questions and discuss each episode with Andrew and other listeners. 

New spaces will be added as the community grows.

Yes. You can use a username instead of your real name. There is no ability for other members to search for you. Everything shared inside the community is confidential by rule, and members who violate that privacy are permanently banned.

Absolutely. Beginners are not only welcome, they're equally valued members of this community. No question is too basic and no one will be made to feel less than for being earlier in their journey. Everyone here was new once.

Education and open conversation are highly valued by this community, and beginners often bring some of the best questions and the most intense curiosity.

Yes. A shared account will give you full access to the general community spaces, including open discussions about Dominance and submission, the introductions channel, episode discussion, and Ask Infinite Devotion.

The one caveat is that there are private channels exclusively for Dominants and exclusively for submissives that are only accessible with individual accounts. Those spaces exist to protect more sensitive and personal conversations that are specific to each role.

If both partners want access to their respective private spaces, each will need their own account at $30 per year. But a shared account is a perfectly valid way to participate in everything the open community has to offer.

Everyone who joins the Infinite Devotion Community for $30/year will immediately receive a $100 coupon to use towards any of our paid courses or programs with no expiration date. 

Just click "Join Now" at the top, and you'll receive the coupon by email immediately after joining! 

Infinite Devotion Community — Rules & Guidelines 

Welcome. This space was built because you deserve better than what's out there. It exists for conscious, thoughtful people who take their dynamic seriously and want somewhere to grow, connect, and be understood. These guidelines exist to protect that. Ignorance of these rules does not constitute an excuse not to follow them.

1. Share your experience, not your prescription. You can offer a lot to this community by sharing what has worked, what hasn't, and what you've learned. What you can't do is tell someone else what their dynamic should look like. Each person here is on their own path. Take what resonates and leave the rest. Beginners and those just starting on this path are to be treated with the same respect as anyone else.

2. Act with class, and be good to everyone. Rude, dismissive, condescending, or disrespectful behavior of any kind will not be tolerated. This includes how you engage with people whose life or dynamic looks different from yours, and kink shaming of any kind. The philosophies of “Live and Let Live” and “Agree to Disagree” guide this rule. This means allowing others the dignity of having an experience that’s different than yours.

3. This is not a dating or pickup site. Zero tolerance for using this space to pursue other members romantically or sexually. No pickup attempts, no unsolicited flirting, no testing boundaries under the guise of conversation. Everyone here should feel free to be open without worrying about being hit on. Violations of this rule result in an immediate permanent ban, no exceptions.

4. Do not DM any member without their explicit consent. Unsolicited DM’s are grounds for immediate and permanent ban. If someone hasn't indicated they're open to direct messages, don't send one. Ask publicly first and wait for consent before sending any DM, and respect that some people are here for community discussion and nothing more.

5. Keep it R-rated or below. Discussions about kink, sexuality, and the full spectrum of D/s dynamics are welcome and encouraged. Explicit sexual content, graphic imagery, or X-rated material is not. You know the difference. No one is allowed in this community under the age of 18, and no discussion of anything illegal, non consensual, or coerced.

6. Protect privacy, yours and everyone else's. Many people here are not out about their dynamic in their everyday lives. What is shared in this community stays here. Do not screenshot, share, or reference other members' disclosures outside of this space. Treat everything shared here as confidential unless a member explicitly says otherwise. You can adjust your profile to reflect a user name instead of your real name for the sake of anonymity if you so choose.

7. No self-promotion or solicitation. This community is not a marketplace. Do not promote your own products, services, social accounts, or content without explicit permission from Infinite Devotion.

8. Stay in your lane on credentials. You're welcome to share your experience and perspective. You're not welcome to present yourself as an authority, coach, therapist, or expert in any way. If someone is dealing with something serious, point them toward qualified professionals. And if you are a qualified professional, rule 7 still applies.

9. Engage in good faith. Debate and disagreement are healthy. Bad faith argumentation, deliberate provocation, and bad-faith interpretations of what someone said are not. If you're here to stir things up rather than grow, this isn't the right space for you. Bickering, arguing, name calling, and anything else that feels like these will result in an immediate, permanent ban.

10. Andrew and the Infinite Devotion team have final say. These guidelines will evolve as the community does. Our goal will always be to keep them simple and to apply them fairly. Any serious violation results in an immediate and permanent ban. Judgment calls on gray areas rest with us, and we'll make them with the health of the community in mind. Any ban for violation of these rules will also constitute a loss of any prepaid membership in the community. Refunds will not be issued because you violated the rules.

Disclaimer: Infinite Devotion provides the architecture and moderation for this community. We do not endorse the advice, opinions, or experiences shared by individual members. Nothing shared here constitutes professional relationship, psychological, or medical advice. Use your own discernment.