Becoming a Dominant Man

Is this you?

• You want to be Dominant and it feels so far out of reach.
• You're tired of being questioned and second guessed.
• You want to be confident and strong, but it feels like you're faking it.
• You're afraid that being Dominant means being a jerk to women.
• You give and give and never seem to receive anything back.
• You're more comfortable buried in work or at the gym, and wondering why she still isn't pursuing you.

Who this is for, and who it isn't for

I was there

I thought being a man meant sacrificing yourself for others. So I made sure everyone else had what they wanted, and silently hoped someone would step up and care about me the way I cared about them. They didn't. And I resented it, which made me needy, and the needier I got, the farther away any satisfaction seemed.

So I let apathy sink in. Drank too much. Gained eighty pounds. Sat in front of the TV. Watched too much porn. Buried myself in my work.

And then came the night in bed I told you about at the top. I remembered how much she used to want me. And I decided I would dominate my own life first, and become the kind of man who inspired her desire instead of begging for it.

Things changed. Big time. My wife now wears a collar and kneels at my feet daily, as a sign of her submission to the man I've become. The 12 Steps are how I got here.

What are the 12 Steps to Dominance?

The 12 Steps to Dominance are a sequence for becoming Dominant from the inside out, so leadership flows from who you are instead of a role you play. Each step is a module of lessons and practices. Men work through them in order, at their own pace, with a live call every week to ask Andrew anything.

1. I take 100% responsibility for my life
2. I take care of myself first
3. I live according to my own code
4. I am present in my body
5. I am a masterful communicator
6. I have impeccable integrity
7. I live with my heart open
8. I dance with chaos
9. I am attractive
10. I own my kingdom
11. I speak truth
12. I lead in all things

Over a hundred lessons, with video guidance for every step. Each step ends with a lesson on what it has to do with D/s, and a bridge into the next one.

What happens on the Wednesday calls?

Every Wednesday at 7am Central, Andrew goes live for Becoming a Dominant Man members: teaching on one of the steps, then open Q&A for as long as there are questions. Bring your situation. The calls aren't recorded. They're for the men who show up, so everyone can be honest without it living anywhere afterward. The calls are included for as long as you're a member, which is for life.

The secret to inspiring submission

If women are not submitting to you in your life, it's because you are faking something. Women, especially submissive women, are bloodhounds for weakness and a lack of integrity. They aren't doing it on purpose. They're looking out for their own safety.

Feminine women submit to strong, solid men. Naturally. Automatically. If that's not your experience, the women aren't the problem. Some part of you isn't as solid as it could be.

This course teaches you how to be a Dominant man inside and out, so your Dominance is real and yours. It's slow. It's confronting. It will bring you face to face with your pain, your weakness and your deepest woundings. And every step takes you deeper into the thing you've always deserved: honest, authentic confidence.

You don't do this for her. You do it for you. And the world shows up differently when you show up differently.

Questions men ask before starting

Is this for single men or men in relationships?

Both. Men in relationships use the steps to lead the one they're in. Single men use them to become the man a submissive woman can trust before they meet her. The work is the same; the practice ground differs.

How long do I have access?

For life, including the Wednesday calls, for as long as you're in.

Will you help me with my individual situation?

On the Wednesday calls, yes: bring it. For private work, Andrew offers 12 and 24 session coaching packages, sold separately. The coaching page explains how to apply.

What is the free week?

Sample Access gives you seven days inside the course, including the Wednesday call that falls in your week, at no cost. If it's for you, you join. If it's not, nothing is charged.

What is your refund policy?

Purchases are final. You get immediate access to all of it, and the free week exists so you can decide before you buy.

I'm new to D/s. Can I start here?

Yes. The 12 Steps are the inner work that makes a man worth submitting to, and every step ends with a lesson on what it has to do with D/s. You don't need a dynamic yet. You need to want to be the man who can lead one.